Inner critic
✺
Hey,
I'm your life,
I'm the one who takes you there.
Hey,
I'm your life,
I'm the one who cares.
—Metallica
~
Sometimes
I wrestle with my demons,
and sometimes
we just snuggle.
—Seen on a magnet
in Cliff’s Variety Store
~
It's no surprise to me
I am my own worst enemy
'cause every now and then
I kick the living shit out of me
—Lit
~
I always thought it was me against the world, and then one day I realized it’s just me against me.
—Kendrick Lamar
~
The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.
—Pema Chödrön
~
This being human is a guest house
Every morning a new arrival
A joy, a depression, a meanness
Some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor
Welcome and entertain them all
—Jalal al-Din Rumi
~
if i am the longest relationship
of my life
isn't it time to
nurture intimacy
and love
with the person
i lie in bed with each night
—rupi kaur
~
Keep your friends close
and your enemies closer.
―Mario Puzo
~
We have all a better guide in ourselves, if we would attend to it, than any other person can be.
—Jane Austen
~
I celebrate myself,
and sing myself.
—Walt Whitman
~
Perhaps everything terrible is in its deepest being something helpless that wants help from us.
—Rainer Maria Rilke
~
To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
—Oscar Wilde
✺
Inner critic check-in practice
6 Fs parts check-in & unblending practice
5-step unblending & check-in practice with a worried part
Poem: Why am I not good enough?
The unburdened internal system
The 8 C & 5 P qualities of Self energy
The concept of unblending in Internal Family Systems therapy
5-step unblending & check-in practice with a worried part
Parts map: What part wants my attention?
Self to part: If I really knew you, what would I know?
On-the-spot Self-care-for-parts practice
Pete Carroll & the power of positive coaching